Emotional reactivity is an automatic, usually unconscious response, to specific events, situations, or people. Particularly when we are under stress, emotional reactivity is almost entirely negative. The environment seems more threatening or fraught with uncertainty. Our “buttons get pushed” more easily. We’re more likely to lash out or, if we hold it in, emotionally shut down. This …
Psychology
IQ Myths: Is Genius Innate or Learned?
IQ, intelligence and genius are always a top topic. Audiences around the world love to see characters who are born genius’ and seem to just magically know everything. Dr Ericsson has studied the myth of genius at great length and he says with authority that they are NOT born genius’. It takes a lot of …
5 Real Points From Psychology 101.
Psychology is really relatively simple and in some ways comes down to five core points when understanding people. I have had the pleasure to learn, experience and practice some different roles in the world of psychology, therapy and counselling from both sides of the couch. All of this experience has taught me some eye-opening stuff about …
How Well Does “Positive Thinking” Really Work?
There is a massive wave of inspirational doctrine including psychological advice, coaching, miscellaneous information, quotes, etc. focused on telling people that they alone are liable for their #happiness, #life, and #success. Theoretically, everyone is solely responsible for themselves and everything in their lives by how they think. If you let go of all negative thinking …
But: The Real Meaning Behind Some Words
Too many people perceive themselves as not deserving, good enough, strong enough, or bright enough. Then due to this belief, these people can have an internal voice that keeps saying “but” to every positive thought or hope. Find out how can this type of thinking be stopped.
Some People Never Change, Why?
Some people will never change” is one of my site’s top search terms. Surprised? I agree. In fact, I thought it was some fluke until it kept showing up every day month after month. I love watching the search term results because it gives me great ideas for what’s going on in people’s minds and what …
Say “I do” to Marriage and a Happy You.
Is it possible to stay in your marriage through thick and thin without losing a part of who you truly are? How do you stop from building inner resentments over the years for all of those little things that we all have to give up or compromise on? Can it be done, and both of …
How Promises Build Trust In Your Life.
Western society today abuses the entire concept of a “promise.” The term is overused and often broken. Our terrible divorce rates can attest to that. We need to stop making promises unless we mean it and can keep them. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
Toxic People: Watch Out For These Signature Traits.
A list of traits exhibited by toxic people. Toxic people can include everyone from dysfuctional people onto psychopaths and Narcissists. Insights from Karen Young from Hey Sigmond and Dr. Travis Bradbury are included. By Amanda Ricks
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#4 Top Emotional Health Tips!
A look and explanation of the top most effective tips for emotional health that are used by millions of people with tremendous success. The author draws facts and information from her own experience in psychology and counseling. By Amanda Ricks
3 Life Lessons For Happiness.
Three simple and easy concepts or attitudes to adopt that will help you achieve happiness. Including study results from Sonja Lyubomirsky. By Amanda Ricks
Falling In Love Scientifically
An article that is based upon the scientific paper by Dr. Arthur Aaron about Falling in Love Scientifically which explores being able to make people fall in love by scientific standards. An article by M. Len. Catron who personally tried the experiment is included. By Amanda Ricks